How To Know If Your Wife Is Planning To Leave You 5 Telltale Signs

By Robbie James

Marriage is one of the most complex types of human relationships we can have. Apart from our spouse, with whom else in life does a person share so much on so many levels, including: financial, friendship, sexual, social, household, and (for some) parenting?

For a married person and his or her spouse, when elements of all of these dimensions of life are going fairly well, it can be a wonderful feeling. For most married couples, there are moments of sheer bliss when it seems like life could not get any better.

On the other hand, there are also times when things are not quite so rosy. In fact, when things in a marriage start to go south, they can do so at an alarming rate and seemingly all at once.

For a married man, it is especially a challenge when you had been feeling like your lives were going pretty well – and then you suddenly find out that your wife is not at all happy. Or, maybe you have known on some level for years that things were not so rosy. But, lately maybe things seem to almost be reaching a breaking point and you are starting to get worried. In your darkest moments, you might even start to suspect that your wife may be considering leaving you.

If you are wondering how to know if your wife is planning to leave you, here are 5 telltale signs:

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1. She seems to be getting certain details of her life in order:

Have you noticed that your wife seems to be a little bit extra busy lately – as if she is getting her affairs in order? This is the kind of activity often witnessed in someone who believes they are going to die soon. However, if your wife is going through an organizational streak around the home or with your finances, this could be a sign that she is planning to fly the coop.

2. Your wife seems to be spending much less time at home:

Lately, you may have noticed that your wife is spending a lot more time outside of the home than inside. Maybe she is going shopping, or hanging out with friends, or is just unaccounted for now and then. She may be slowly severing her ties with the home (and you) as a way to ease the emotional blow of a future planned separation.

3. You have evidence that she has taken up interest in another man:

This is a hard sign to admit to oneself. But, think for a moment: do you get the feeling that your wife may be paying particular attention to someone outside the home, say at work or in a community organization? While she may have stopped short of having an affair, her mind may be going in that direction.

4. You find correspondence between her and her attorney:

If you have noticed e-mails, letters, or voice messages between your wife and her attorney, this could be the sign that she is preparing to leave.

5. Others that know you say that they have not seen the two of you together much lately:

One of the most unsettling ways to find out that your wife may be planning on leaving you is when you get an indication from a friend, neighbor or family member that they have not seen you and your wife together much lately.

Of course, much more important than any of these possible telltale signs that your wife is planning to leave your marriage is simply your own intuition that something is not quite right. However, if you already have the sense that things are amiss in the marriage – it may be time to put together a plan to make things right again.

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